Building the identity that holds your vision
1:1 COACHING
1:1 COACHING
4 months, you + Me, Building your fuck off vision
There is a special kind of swirl saved for the big thinkers and feelers who scrutinise their ideas through the lens of the world.
We co-create this journey. No more fumbling along on your own having a daily menty b into your iced coff coff.
I’m the mad scientist that’s going to have you mix your own concoctions and test hypotheses.
I walk beside you challenging you to think bigger, pressure testing well trodden beliefs, and clearing out the remnants of outgrown visions.
I bring the behavioural psychology and neuroscience. You bring the part of you that already knows. That combination is where the real magic happens.
Say Less!
Drop me your name and email and I’ll reach out with more information to get a call on the books.
You’re probably the person who sees a pattern or a gap and thinks ‘looks like fun, I can solve this’. An insatiable curiosity combined with an appetite to give things a red hot go. Perhaps a sprinkling of shiny object obsession but I’ll keep it polite in case this is your first impression of me.
It’s after the initial success where things get dicey.
Where it feels embarrassing to say ‘I don’t know what to do next’.
I’ve come this far, people are already impressed. But now I’m scared they will think it was a fluke, that I was a fraud. My energy is leaking out of me from the internal battles I have to overcome before I even take the smallest of steps.
What was once "I don't need to make loads of money" now came with the creeping suspicion that the relationship between ambition and integrity looks different than you initially thought.
What was once "I'm building something that matters" now came with the quiet fear of abandoning the people the first thing was built for.
You can see what you are doing but that doesn't mean you can always overcome it.
Because most people don’t understand how high the admission fee is. Or that you need to give up this version of you without a guarantee. It’s a contract with blank clauses, which requires a signature in blood.
You’re not stalling, you are just subconsciously weighing up whether you want to choose this next path and what it comes with.
You’re pretty sure you can do it. Look at what you have done already.
But there’s still that part of you that is keeping score of all the quiet rejections, using them as ammunition.
Your ever dedicated paralegal.
Filing away every piece of feedback or internal tussle. Reminding you of your failures at every stumble.
Making it near impossible to change your mind without feeling like a fraud.
Diligently fertilising every seed of doubt. Her job is to keep you in the room you've already proven you can survive in.
Your job is to rip through the walls.
The transformation is always yours.
That’s what makes coaching so critical for people that are unwilling to accept ‘good enough’. Because you know that the paralegal has ulterior motives. You know they are trying to keep you safe. But you’re more interested in feeling fucking alive. You want to look around at your life and think I knew it was going to be good but I could imagine it would be THIS good.
Because here’s the thing… Most people believe it is the coach who creates the transformation. That you pay for someone to apply their brilliance to you.
I’ve found that the transformation is always yours. You hold the map and I’ll share the tools I have to teach so you can find something wholly unique to you.
This matters because it’s your fuck off vision and when the credit sits with me as your coach, you leave dependent.
You want more than that. You want the freedom you promised yourself when you started working for yourself, and so that is what you will get!
I help you to:
Ditch the swirl
Let’s make the call that would have taken six months last year in the space of an afternoon. Without spiralling. Without auditing. Without needing it to be validated by the whole group chat.
Develop a self-trust grounded in evidence, not affirmations.
So the flashing neon FRAUD sign quietens because the data underneath you is finally louder than it.
Stop being swaddled by your own secret service.
Recognise the keeping-you-safe move for what it is: a quiet rejection dressed up as strategy.
Read the invisible undercurrents
The quiet rejections that have been pulling you backwards while you called them research, prep, planning.
I’m in.
Drop me your name and email and I’ll reach out with more information to get a call on the books.